Innocence
“Women are into decisive men who know what they want, especially when those men want them. Women want to feel wanted and swept off their feet. The whole ‘friendship’ gimmick is not attractive to women. If that’s your approach to women you’re interested in, you’re showing that you’re indecisive, scared and don’t know what you’re looking for. Frankly, women don’t want you to realize one day what a great gem they are. They want you to see their potential right away and then pursue them.”
— Kate Vershov
The women in porn plead to be abused. They call themselves whores and sluts. They are beaten and penetrated by groups of men. Their faces are covered with semen from dozens of masturbating men, their anuses are penetrated repeatedly by lines of partners, and they are raped. The women portrayed in the films exist to fulfill the desire of men in the most degrading and painful way possible. Nearly all porn dialogue includes lines from women such as I am a cunt, I am a bitch. I am a whore. I am a slut.
…I’m a filthy cunt
Glad to see Tumblr has taught you something, cunt.
Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt Cunt
Now go jerk off to these words…YOU CUNT!
It is a common misconception that women who abide by
traditional gender roles have no idea what empowerment
is.
Unfortunately, the fact that a lot of women feel most empowered by submitting to their man is often overlooked as just ‘internalized misogyny’.
It is okay to fall into your natural role as woman. You should never be ashamed to do so just because of the expectations that others have of you.
Let him lead you. It is okay to feel more comfortable when you follow him.
Let him provide for you financially while you keep his home clean and warm with love.
Let him make the decisions. You will find that a great deal of stress is lifted from your life once you surrender the uncertainty of making the wrong choice and trust in him.
Let him protect you. Your body was not built as strong and big as his, you were meant to be defended – not to defend.
There is empowerment like you wouldn’t imagine in submitting to him. Do not be afraid just because someone’s definition of empowerment is different from yours.
I’ve often thought that women who believe ‘submitting’ to their man means to become enslaved by your man is misinterpreted.
I believe that submission in a relationship means to put your faith into your partner. In this case, of a man and a woman, if the woman is submitting to her man, then she believes in him and trusts his leadership. I believe that she follows him because she trusts in his instinct and knowledge to not question a decision the man makes.
I also believe a real man will take his woman’s opinion into HEAVY consideration before acting. I believe that if his woman has a concern that he will do whatever in his power to take her concern away and ensure her that he has it handled.
I believe a person, whether man or woman follows a more dominant person willingly and loyally if he or she believes in him or her. A loyal follower does not follow a fool. Just like I believe a woman doesn’t follow a man she doesn’t believe in and trust.
[TW misogyny]
The desire to see women utterly degraded and powerless explains in part why anal sex has become so popular in porn. In the real world this act is becoming more common, but I doubt that many women are seeking out the type of anal sex that the pornographers depict. What generally makes anal sex so appealing in porn is the potential pain and harm that robotic and mechanistic thrusting can cause women.One porn executive explains why users like anal: “Essentially it comes from [every man] who’s unhappily married, and he looked at his wife who just nagged at him about this or that or whatnot, and he says, `I’d like to fuck you in the ass.’ He’s angry at her, right? And he can’t, so he would rather watch some girl taking it up the ass and fantasize at that point he’s doing whatever girl happened to be mean to him that particular day.” Similarly, one producer at the Expo told me that he was specializing in anal-themed movies because “men like to see just how far the women will go with the cocks up her ass. I like to see them pushed to the edge, so I make films I like to watch.”
Gail Dines, Pornland: How Porn Has Hijacked Our Sexuality
I think the most chilling part of this book is reading what average porn consumers and what men in the porn industry say. It’s not that I already didn’t know that they think this, but it’s jarring to hear it confirmed
(via wretchedoftheearth)
I’ve always wondered where there is so much anal sex in porn. Now I wish I could unhear this reason.
(via robot-heart-politics)
The horror and disgust these feminist sweethearts feel when they realize why guys like anal turns me on.
Yes, sweeties, men in your class, at your job, and maybe even in your own family have blown loads into their wank t-shirts while flipping back and forth on their phones between hardcore anal scenes and your Facebook photos.
When they finish they’re imagining the look of shame and defeat on your face when they empty their balls in your ass.
(via malfemrelval)
The women in porn plead to be abused. They call themselves whores and sluts. They are beaten and penetrated by groups of men. Their faces are covered with semen from dozens of masturbating men, their anuses are penetrated repeatedly by lines of partners, and they are raped. The women portrayed in the films exist to fulfill the desire of men in the most degrading and painful way possible. Nearly all porn dialogue includes lines from women such as I am a cunt, I am a bitch. I am a whore. I am a slut.